Vanessa Carlton has unique style that is unlike other pop stars. I enjoy this song. It reminds me that you can know someone and never really know them. It's good to remember that you can never really understand the person you are closest to in their entirety. You may be able to understand concepts, but you never really KNOW what they are going through. It's what makes us unique and complex all rolled into one. It's ironic she has a song about not being able to be completely understood, when songs are supposed to be a way to understand what the artist is going through.